Why do we fall?

"Why do we fall? so we can learn to pick ourselves up" - Thomas Wayne (Batman Begins 2005.)

This is a simple quote about going down and learning to get back up.

But I would prefer something other than talking about this quote.

What is life without hardships, but life is not just hardships. How can you pick yourself up after falling hard on the face?

When you work hard for something, do you always achieve it if yes, then you are indeed an exceptional being, and if no means you are just like most people in the world.

One thing to consider though is what we are working towards.

Are you sure that you want to dance, is it certain that you want to play basketball, is it sure that you want to become a millionaire? Is it sure that you want to do what you are doing right now?

It is a question worth asking. What we are doing right now is worth spending time on.

For example, I'm still thinking deeply if my chosen path is correct. I often question my reality and think deeply about whether I am supposed to be a writer or was ever supposed to start writing. But it's not your fault. Hobbies and goals are necessary for one's life. This creates a sense of discipline and it's the human nature for creativity. 

Thoughts and creativity are part of being human and being alive. Thinking and finding a feeling of gratification is what gives life meaning. But just like having too much food can have abrupt consequences. Thinking too much is also not something healthy to do. I am not a philosopher now, nor am I some professor who teaches Critical Thinking. But I am someone who often overthinks. "Life is a bitch she don't fight fair" - (Grandson, "Oh No!!!" 2021). Some fair words describing that if you have 1 good day, you will have 1 bad month to balance it out.

The are tons of variables that affect your life. Your work, duties, responsibilities, and the people in your life.

So learning, that is the tricky part if we can't figure out where we messed up how can we work to amend it, so it never happens again. Learning to be friends with who really can help you and not with the ones who are always undermining you and not appreciating you for your expertise. Or taking a different way around the lesson. If people unlike you for this let them. You should respect yourself before you respect others. Take control of your life. Because no one helping you but trying to surpass and undermine you until you die. Truth to be told. Learning is hard and painful.

So, take a risk and learn. Get out of the hole, step out of the corner. Survival is easy but Life is a Challenge.